Christmas to an immigrant
Posted on Dec 23rd, 2008
by
Chee
I never really experienced the Christmas morning rush to the tree, to find presents and far away family members gathered to see what gifts Santa brought this year.
If I could recall, my Christmas Day mornings consist of heart crushing memories. It was just another day off for my over worked parents. T.V. and stories from classmates were the only source of Christmas, to feed my childlike envious mind . Although today I understand that my parents did their best to make ends meet.
I wasn't absolutely cut out from the Christmas festive, my parents did manage two or three times out of my childhood to get gifts. One year two local police officers came by with gifts from the Salvation Army. I received a tape recorder and my uncle a couple of years older got a board game. [ I believe in po-po's "police" not Santa Claus]
I haven't yet comprehend the whole Christmas spirit. All I see is a selfish holiday. Buy toys for children, 'what is it that we are trying to teach them? ' - to be disappointed if they did not received the expected toy? (the state of our economic was failed by these falsely action and lies)
A sincere friend of mine and his partner chose to teach their two sons the meaning of gifts that keeps on giving. The two boys had a special piggy bank were coins collected through the year was put into. Near Christmas they would donate their coin collection to Heifer International. The fun part was they had the fun of picking out which livestock's to give to poor families in developing countries!
I understand that Christmas is not about gift giving but rather about sharing the love. The love however seems to be directed through materialistic means. Being an immigrant and learning these new culture habits are quite interesting.
Two mornings from now, I still will have not "celebrate" Christmas the American way. I'll just be thankful that its another beautiful day!

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